

24. Relationship Psychologist: Why 42% of Marriages Fail (And How to Save Yours) | Dr. Aria Campbell-Danesh
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Is your relationship stuck on repeat?
Why do smart, self-aware people keep having the same argument with different partners?
On this week’s episode of The Conscious Rising, I sit down with Dr. Aria Campbell-Danesh — a clinical psychologist (15+ years) working at the intersection of high performance and relationships — to get practical about why patterns repeat and how to rebuild with honesty and presence.
He explains:
⬛ The difference between reactivity vs. responsibility (and how to switch in the moment)
⬛ Why unresolved pain shows up as the same fight with a new partner
⬛ How to repair (and when space is the kinder move)
⬛ Love vs. the conditions of a relationship (agreements that actually hold)
⬛ Clear frames on monogamy / polyamory without ideology — structure, safety, and trust
⬛ How to rebuild after betrayal or identity collapse without bypassing the hard parts
00:00 — Love vs. relationships: what’s the difference?
01:01 — Meet Dr. Aria (who he is & what he does)
02:18 — Why he left medicine for psychology
17:18 — How to meet the right partner (and be one)
19:09 — Are you looking for someone to “complete” you?
20:14 — Who are you beyond your identity?
24:20 — What agreements make relationships work?
25:25 — Why some hurts require relational repair
26:23 — Do small hurts become big problems? (micro-ruptures → resentment)
27:11 — Marriage: failing or evolving?
29:21 — Monogamy or polyamory: what actually works?
31:36 — Power, money & safety: what really destabilises us?
47:38 — Tools that help: CBT, Stoicism & mindfulness
49:03 — Presence over multitasking (the 46.9% problem)
01:01:28 — How to repair: make the problem the “third thing”
01:02:29 — Being seen & valued: why attention matters
01:03:27 — Daily practice: look up
01:03:50 — What healing really means
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