Mamamia Out Loud The New Love Language & A Fitness Dating Test
Oct 30, 2025
The hosts tackle the challenge of dating dynamics, advocating for partners to show more enthusiasm. The concept of 'chalance' versus 'limerence' sparks an engaging discussion about relationship health. They explore the global fitness trend of Hyrox and its impact on dating profiles. A humorous dilemma about politely declining wedding gifts leads to clever strategies. Finally, the viral concept of practicing boredom offers a fresh take on mindfulness, making it a thought-provoking conversation all around.
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Public Affection Versus Limerence
- Em Vernem argues that many breakups happen because partners don’t “love loudly” and act distant in public despite private intimacy.
- The hosts distinguish limerence (short-lived obsession) from sustained visible affection as separate relationship issues.
Limerence Is Not Sustainable Love
- Holly explains limerence is distinct from love: limerence is early-stage obsession that often fades and can be addictive.
- She warns that chasing perpetual limerence can be a red flag linked to serial cheating or sex addiction.
What 'Loved Loudly' Looks Like
- Em imagines a 30-year relationship where her partner still books surprise dinners and publicly praises her beauty loudly.
- She pictures repeated public kisses and hand-holding as markers of sustained affection.