
LessWrong (30+ Karma) “Out-paternalizing the government (getting oxygen for my baby)” by Ruby
Nov 20, 2025
The podcast dives into a parent's struggle with their child's respiratory issues, emphasizing the tension between parental choice and government regulation. Ruby recounts the urgency of securing oxygen during a medical scare, touching on the challenges posed by paternalistic regulations. The discussion includes alternative oxygen sources and reflections on the complexities of medical autonomy versus safety. Ruby's journey highlights the emotional drive behind parental decisions and a critique of the system's barriers to accessible healthcare.
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Emergency Oxygen Hunt For My Child
- Ruby recounts two pediatric ER visits for her daughter’s cold-induced breathing problems and the distress they caused.
- She launched an urgent "oxygen quest," searching marketplaces and learning necessary parts to deliver supplemental oxygen at home.
Head To ED If You Can’t Get Oxygen Fast
- If you can't source oxygen immediately, prioritize getting to the emergency department for assessment and possible treatments beyond oxygen.
- Use a pulse oximeter to monitor saturation; readings below 92% warrant care.
Hospital Treatment Worked Fast
- The hospital provided steroid and nebulized albuterol, which rapidly improved the child's condition without needing oxygen.
- Ruby notes pediatric clinicians' diagnostic skill and treatment options exceeded what she initially expected.










