In this episode, Ellen and Kathleen emphasize the importance of discussing sex daily with your spouse as a way to improve communication and eliminate the negativity often associated with these conversations. They suggest setting aside just five minutes each day to ensure regular, comfortable discussions about sex. Topics include how to initiate conversations, preferences, personal hygiene, foreplay, and addressing past experiences. They provide practical tips and conversation starters to make these talks more effective and enjoyable.

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Here's the conversation starters we recommend!

• What do you like about the way I initiate
• Would you like me to initiate in a different way
• What kind of atmosphere do you like for sex
• What kind of personal hygiene do you prefer before sex? Shower, teeth, sweaty/stinky, cigar
• What kind of lingerie do you like
• Do you like talking during sex? What kind of talking do you like
• What is something you’ve always wanted to do?
• What is something about sex you often think about?
• What is something you wish/fantasize about sex?
• How often would you like to be having sex?
• What is your favorite position?
• What is a position you would like to try?
• What are your favorite things that I do during sex?
• What are things you dislike that I do during sex?
• What was your favorite sexual encounter we have ever had?
• What things do you like during foreplay?
• Is there something you would like to try?
• Is there something that embarrasses you about sex?
• What helps you relax before sex?
• What would you like to have done around the house before sex?
• Is there anything you need to have in place before being comfortable having sex?
• What are your past experiences of sex?
• How do your past experiences affect our sex life? How you view sex?
• Do you like wearing socks during sex?

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