Lovett or Leave It Lovett or Leave It Presents: Bravo, America! (with Dorinda Medley)
Nov 11, 2025
Dorinda Medley, reality TV icon from The Real Housewives of New York, shares her journey through the early days of Bravo before social media changed the game. She discusses how her experience as a political spouse prepared her for the drama of reality TV, revealing why staying interesting is crucial. Dorinda reflects on her elimination from competition shows, the craft of editing in reality TV, and how authenticity reigns supreme. She also gives insight into applying reality show strategies to politics and praises the business acumen of her fellow castmates.
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Traveling For A Show Then Getting Cut
- Dorinda trained intensely and spent heavily before appearing on The Traitors, then was eliminated almost immediately.
- She felt devastated because the show was a game of chance she couldn't control.
Early Reality Felt More Authentic
- Dorinda says early Bravo reality felt simpler and allowed authentic selves to emerge.
- Mutual familiarity among cast made filming feel communal rather than performative.
Treat Reality TV As A Long Game
- Decide whether you have the stamina and strategy to be on reality TV before signing on.
- Treat the show as a long-term build where the audience peels back layers season by season.
