Waking Up to Narcissism Gaslight, Golden Child, and Growth: Understanding Narcissism vs Emotional Immaturity
Aug 30, 2023
Explore the striking differences between narcissism and emotional immaturity. Discover the rare nuances of narcissistic personality disorder and learn about impactful family dynamics, including the roles of the 'golden child' and 'scapegoat.' Gain insight into traits like entitlement and black-or-white thinking, alongside practical rules for navigating complex relationships. This enlightening discussion is packed with coping strategies and essential advice for setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing self-care.
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Listener Letter Sparked The Episode
- A listener wrote that Waking Up to Narcissism felt like a mirror, revealing gaslighting in his marriage and upbringing roots.
- Tony Overbay used this letter to introduce basics and validate listeners waking up to patterns in their relationships.
NPD Is Rare; Narcissism Is Overused
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is relatively rare compared to how often 'narcissist' is used colloquially.
- Tony Overbay argues most people are emotionally immature to varying degrees until they pursue growth and self-awareness.
DSM-5 Criteria Define Clinical Narcissism
- The DSM-5 lists nine criteria for NPD and requires five or more for diagnosis, creating a threshold rather than a gradient.
- Tony highlights traits like grandiosity, entitlement, lack of empathy, and need for admiration as core DSM markers.