
The Wisdom Of Barthes, Kierkegaard, Han - What happened to the erotic?
Nov 27, 2025
What is the essence of eroticism in today's world? Explore Kierkegaard's take on desire as shaped by distance and possibility. Discover Barthes's notion that elusiveness enhances desire. Proust’s reflections reveal how interpretation and absence sustain longing. Byung-Chul Han argues that true eroticism requires a real, resisting other. The discussion raises concerns about modern culture's transparency damaging the mystery that fuels eros, while Han critiques pornography for suffocating erotic imagination. Can eroticism thrive without shadow and silence?
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Desire Lives In Possibility
- Kierkegaard sees eroticism as fueled by possibility and not possession.
- Desire thrives in tension between attraction and inaccessibility, and dies with fulfillment.
Opacity Fuels The Lover's Imagination
- Roland Barthes stresses that eroticism requires the beloved's elusiveness and opacity.
- The lover's imagination feeds on ambiguous signs that resist full comprehension.
Proust's Obsession With Albertine
- Proust's narrator obsessively decodes Albertine's glances, moods, and absences.
- His erotic attraction comes from what he cannot fully understand or possess about her.





