102 - Picky Eating or Normal Toddler Food Refusal? What Parents Can Do - with Dr. Paula Martinez-Mallari

👩‍⚕️ Guest:
Dr. Paula Martinez-Mallari, pediatrician and gut health specialist, and mom of four!

🍼 Description:
Is your child refusing food, only eating white-colored meals, or taking forever to finish a plate? You're not alone! In this practical and judgment-free episode, pediatrician and mom Dr. Paula explains the different types of picky eaters—and  what parents can do about it.

🗣️ Questions We Asked Dr. Paula:

• What's the difference between normal toddler food preferences and true picky eating?
• What are the different kinds of picky eaters you’ve seen?
• Is threatening or bribing kids to eat effective?
• What happens during a consultation with a feeding specialist or pediatrician?
• Why is advice like “just starve them, they’ll eat” potentially harmful?
• What’s food chaining—and how can parents try it at home?
• What are better alternatives to hiding vegetables or bribing kids with candy?
• Is snacking okay?

💡 Key Takeaways:

• There are different types of picky eaters, so there's no one-size-fits-all.
• Food refusal may signal deeper issues, like sensory sensitivity or underlying medical/developmental concerns.
• Strategies such as food chaining can help kids accept new foods by gradually transitioning from familiar ones.
• Avoid bribing or threatening—build positive mealtime experiences instead.
• Watch out for red flags like weight loss, very limited food variety, or mealtime stress affecting family life.

📚 More Resources:

https://discerningparenting.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-a-picky-eater/

https://discerningparenting.com/encouragement-for-moms-of-picky-eaters/

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