

#3 From Au Pair to Fashion Stylist in NYC | Raquel Paiva | Brazil → USA
Sep 16, 2025
Raquel Paiva, a Brazilian stylist in NYC, shares her inspiring journey from au pair to working with stars like Anne Hathaway. She discusses the challenges of stepping out of her comfort zone, including overcoming homelessness and cultural shocks. Raquel opens up about her personal growth, embracing her identity, and the transformative power of love and support. Her story is a testament to resilience, highlighting the importance of community and the drive to pursue dreams in a vibrant new world.
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Unexpected Path From Au Pair To NYC
- Raquel came to the U.S. as an au pair to improve English and planned to work on cruise ships afterward.
- Living with a welcoming host family and weekend visits to NYC shifted her plan toward staying and studying fashion.
First Trip, No Translate, Big Leap
- Raquel landed in the U.S. at age 20 with limited English and no smartphone, relying on gestures and peers to navigate airports.
- The experience forced rapid learning and taught her to act before feeling fully ready.
Take The Step Before Ready
- Do take big steps even when not fully prepared because the situation will force you to grow and learn.
- Embrace the uncertainty instead of waiting to see the whole staircase.