From Resentment to Resilience: Dorcas Cheng-Tozun on Loving an Entrepreneur

Dorcas Cheng-Tozun knew early on that she was marrying an entrepreneur, but what she didn’t realize was how profoundly that choice would shape her life and marriage. In this vulnerable and honest conversation, Dorcas shares how the demands of entrepreneurship strained intimacy, sparked deep resentment, and nearly unraveled her sense of self—especially after becoming a parent. She offers insights on how spouses can reclaim their identity, foster connection, and survive the rollercoaster of startup life without losing themselves in the process.

Key takeaways from today's episode:

• Why understanding your partner's entrepreneurial mindset before marriage is critical for long-term connection.
• The hidden cost of not discussing paradigm differences: loneliness, resentment, and emotional distance.
• How to navigate the jealousy and frustration that can emerge when “the business” feels like a third party in your marriage.
• Strategies for maintaining your identity and resisting the pressure to define yourself by your partner’s success.
• A candid look at what happens when couples do “make it”—and why success doesn’t always equal happiness.

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