Mormon Stories Podcast Baptized in Utah to Fit In! - Gabrielle Zelaya | Ep. 2044
Jul 28, 2025
Gabrielle Zelaya shares her intriguing journey as a non-member navigating the challenges of growing up in a predominantly Mormon community in Farmington, Utah. She discusses the pressure to convert for acceptance and the emotional toll of purity culture. Gabrielle delves into the impact of mental health struggles, the journey of disaffection from the Church, and the importance of healing from trauma. Her candid reflections on belonging, identity, and the cultural divide in Mormonism offer a powerful insight into her transformative experiences.
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Non-Mormon Isolation in Utah Schools
- Growing up non-Mormon in Farmington felt isolating with no classmates outside the LDS faith.
- Gabby was bullied for wearing a cross and felt pressure to conform to Mormon norms.
Exclusion from Mormon Friendships
- Non-Mormon kids faced explicit refusal from Mormon families for house visits.
- Some students were told they could only visit if they attended Mormon activities like activity days.
Conversion as Objectification
- Mormons often treat non-members as projects to convert rather than comrades.
- This creates an objectifying dynamic that damages genuine friendships and acceptance.