
The Church of Eleven22 Be A Godly Husband - Stand Firm & Act Like Men: Wk 5
Nov 18, 2025
What does it mean to love your wife sacrificially? This conversation dives into Ephesians 5 and explores the concept of biblical love as an action rather than a feeling. Personal anecdotes highlight the importance of intentional pursuit and understanding your partner's needs. The idea that husbands should lead with humility and prioritize their wives' spiritual growth is emphasized. Finally, there's a powerful message about redemption and perseverance in marriage, encouraging men to love wholeheartedly and sacrificially.
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Marriage Is A Gospel Display
- The primary purpose of marriage is to be a living picture of Christ's gospel to the world.
- Marriage's chief end is reflecting Christ's love for the church, not just companionship or children.
Love Her With Agape Action
- When Paul commands 'love your wives' he uses agape, an action-driven sacrificial love, not feelings.
- Do love your wife by giving yourself sacrificially and seeking her highest good regardless of feelings.
A Spark From Neglect That Started Change
- Matt recounts a season when his job consumed him and his wife felt neglected, which nearly broke their marriage.
- A small act of attention from another man revealed his wife's unmet need and launched his change to pursue her heart.





