EP:073 The Art of Loving a Man with Malena Pena

Union. Loving a Man. Polarity. Communication. Blended Families.

In this episode, I'm joined by Malena Pena as Malena shares her story of going from a failed marriage & the potential loss of the love of her life - to now happily married with the love of her life after taking the deep dive into her inner realms & learning how to relate with men. We discuss the deep dives that are necessary to cultivating safety in your own body & to descend deep into your feminine where vulnerability & love co-exist.

How to cultivate safety in opening your heart after heartbreak.

The feminine in her truest expression.

Communicating to connect, not to create conflict.

Shadow aspects of the feminine using passive aggressive daggers into the heart of her man.

Trusting his lead & your intuition.

How to love a man....slow, soft & sweet - creating a sanctuary for him.

Changing how you relate to men.

Communicating in a way that shuts him down & communicating in a way that opens him up.

Blame, criticism & attack shuts him down.

Letting go of the outcome.

He's cherishing my feelings, I'm respecting his purpose in the world.

Core differences between men and women.

Opening yourself & fully receiving the masculine.

Holding yourself through the tension & discomfort.

Tools to cultivate a powerful union - appreciation & playfulness.

Mothering him, belittling him & chopping his balls off....is subconsciously saying - I'm a better man than you.

Initiating the return of the polarity.

The nature of being open & vulnerable - the rose and the thorn.

At the start of a relationship - you go through a detox of everything that is not love.

Guest Bio:

Malena is a feminine energy relationship coach, she has worked in this field for the past 10 years.  Through her successful blog and one-on-one coaching, she has helped numerous women embrace their Goddess within to help create the relationship of their dreams.  Malena is based out of the L.A. area but coaches women all around the world.  After, much inner work, Malena is now living her happily ever after with the man of her dreams (after a failed first marriage), her two children and a boxer puppy.

Instagram: @theartoflovingaman

Website: The Art of Loving a Man

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