Some women shine. Until love asks them to shrink.

In this episode, I sit down with Madelyn Moon to explore why powerful, radiant women often lose themselves in relationships. We break down the subtle ways the feminine shape-shifts to feel safe, wanted, and loved, even when no one asks her to.

We talk about what happens when you start hiding your “too much,” the danger of choosing partners who can’t hold your fullness, and how to reclaim the parts of you that got buried to keep the peace.

We get into primal safety, embodied expression, jealousy, rage, softness, and why the feminine isn’t meant to be polite. It’s meant to be free.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to tone yourself down to be loved, this episode is your reminder. The right love doesn’t want less of you. It wants all of you.

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00:00 - Intro

01:21 - Why women lose their light in relationships

07:31 - Navigating need, anger and the fear of being unlovable

15:10 - How control and disembodiment show up in women

25:48 - Reclaiming feminine energy through shadow and jealousy

31:30 - Masculine grounding versus feminine chaos

38:51 - Submissiveness, intuition and working together

43:14 - Wiggly men, nervous systems and sexual aftercare

50:09 - How women change after sex and what needs to be clear

57:08 - Is polarity too rigid or just misunderstood?

1:02:50 - How a man can handle a woman’s bitchy side

1:05:23 - Revealing core wounds with elegance

1:09:28 - The hot versus unhot expression of need

1:13:45 - What healthy feminine vulnerability looks like

1:20:17 - From fear to devotion: the impact of masculine leadership

1:29:30 - Being met emotionally versus being managed

1:36:05 - What makes a woman feel deeply chosen

1:39:00 - Final thoughts

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