Brittany Newell, an author and professional dominatrix, shares her journey from writing her first novel at 21 to creating the emotionally rich narrative in 'Softcore.' She discusses how empathy and curiosity shape both her writing and her work in BDSM. The conversation explores the true nature of BDSM spaces, challenging common stereotypes, and touches on the emotional intricacies between dominatrixes and clients. Also, Maureen Corrigan reviews two quintessential New York books, highlighting the city's literary landscape.
Brittany Newell emphasizes that empathy, curiosity, and bravery are essential qualities for both writers and dominatrixes, enriching her storytelling.
The novel Softcore poignantly explores the complexities of loneliness and intimacy, showcasing the profound emotional needs behind clients' desires.
Deep dives
Exploration of Loneliness and Desire
The novel Softcore delves into the complexities of loneliness and longing through its protagonist, Ruth, a stripper and dominatrix in San Francisco. Throughout the story, Ruth navigates her own emotional emptiness while encountering clients who express a deep desire to connect and communicate their own loneliness. Many of her clients seek not just physical fulfillment but a space to share their vulnerabilities, revealing that the motivations behind their fantasies often stem from unfulfilled emotional needs. This exploration highlights how societal pressures create challenging dynamics surrounding intimacy and connection, especially for those operating in the shadows of the mainstream.
The Real vs. The Fictional
Brittany Newell discusses the blurred lines between her life experiences and the fictional narrative of Softcore. While the story is not strictly autobiographical, it incorporates nuanced sensory details and characteristics drawn from her own life, relationships, and observations. The distinct memories and emotions of Newell’s experiences as a professional dominatrix add depth to Ruth’s character, making her relatable and authentic. This complex interplay encourages readers to recognize the layers of reality woven into fictional work, enriching the overall narrative.
Ruth’s Average Appeal
Ruth's characterization as an 'average' girl plays a crucial role in making her story relatable and impactful. By avoiding the portrayal of an idealized body type, Newell crafts a protagonist who reflects the realities of many women while emphasizing the performative nature of sex work. This choice allows Ruth to accumulate empathy from readers, as she navigates both her work in sex and her personal insecurities. Additionally, her 'average-ness' serves as an asset within her roles, facilitating her ability to shapeshift and connect with clients on a more profound, human level.
The Role of Scent in Fantasy
Scent is explored as a powerful tool in Softcore that enhances the experiences of both Ruth and her clients. Throughout the narrative, Ruth’s awareness of scents allows her to forge connections and memories with her clients, elevating their interactions beyond the physical. This exploration highlights how personal fragrance becomes intertwined with identity and fantasy, shaping the atmosphere of each encounter. By emphasizing scent's emotional resonance, the narrative illustrates how much deeper the dynamics of such relationships can run, underscoring the complexities of human desire.
After publishing her first novel when she was 21, Brittany Newell started working as a dominatrix. The job gave her time to write — and plenty of material to draw from. "I always like to say that what makes a good writer is also what makes a good dominatrix, which is empathy and curiosity and bravery," she says. Newell's new novel is Soft Core.
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