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A Dominatrix/Writer Takes Readers Into A Dungeon

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Feb 6, 2025
Brittany Newell, an author and professional dominatrix, shares her journey from writing her first novel at 21 to creating the emotionally rich narrative in 'Softcore.' She discusses how empathy and curiosity shape both her writing and her work in BDSM. The conversation explores the true nature of BDSM spaces, challenging common stereotypes, and touches on the emotional intricacies between dominatrixes and clients. Also, Maureen Corrigan reviews two quintessential New York books, highlighting the city's literary landscape.
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ANECDOTE

From Stanford to Sex Work

  • Brittany Newell, a Stanford graduate, published a novel at 21.
  • Facing financial constraints, she sought flexible work and found it in sex work, allowing her to control her time and pursue writing.
INSIGHT

Empathy, Curiosity, and Bravery

  • Newell emphasizes empathy, curiosity, and bravery as essential qualities for both writers and dominatrixes.
  • These traits enable understanding and acceptance of clients' fantasies, even if personally unrelatable.
ANECDOTE

Client Encounter

  • Newell encountered a client outside of the dungeon, disrupting his fantasy.
  • She worried about ruining his image of her by appearing ordinary.
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