The Date Brazen Podcast 97. Is an emotionally intelligent AND attractive partner possible?
“I can’t expect to have an emotionally intelligent partner and be attracted to them.” Woah. If you are thinking to yourself, “Yes, that’s me. I think that!” Then yes, friend, that is where we are going today. In this episode, I help illuminate this story you have been carrying around about your love life, help you to excavate it, gently, and come out the other side feeling more in control.
So yes, you have a lot of expectations and desires for your dating life. Your job is not to know how things are going to happen. Your job is to ask for what you want and to learn how to overcome patriarchal narratives that have been keeping you confined.
Tune into this episode as we hold space for your human experience and rewrite narratives that have been holding you back from the expansiveness of who you are!
Hot-takes From This Episode:
- What is an emotionally intelligent partner, anyway?
- How to describe and attract what you desire.
- Confirmation bias: if your brain has decided what you want doesn’t exist, your brain will continue to look for that evidence!
- Wanting what you want means starting to look for evidence that what you want DOES exist.
- Consider: What does attraction mean to you?
- Moving from an Either/Or mindset to a Both/And mindset.
- The patriarchal influence on your dating life.
- Journal: What is a thought that feels useful and true?
Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today’s Episode:
Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/is-an-emotionally-intelligent-and-attractive-partner-possible