Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Why Get Married and Anger at Abuser

Jan 30, 2026
They debate whether marriage matters as legal contract, ritual, or social signal. They explore alternatives to weddings and the costs pushed by the wedding industry. They dive into schemas and attachment when assessing mistrust and abuse items. They discuss validating anger toward parents, using anger constructively in therapy, and how apology and repair shape relationships.
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Marriage As Meaningful Ceremony

  • Marriage is more than a legal contract; it's a shared ceremony that creates meaning and marks life transitions.
  • Kirk argues ceremonies bind partners through shared stress and memory, making commitment psychologically powerful.
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Marriage's Historical Function

  • Historically, marriage served property and inheritance functions rather than romantic love.
  • Bob reminds listeners modern romantic meanings are recent cultural additions layered onto older legal structures.
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Rituals Help Navigate Transitions

  • Humans use rituals to navigate liminal life transitions and create shared meaning.
  • Kirk connects marriage rituals to worldwide rites that move people from old to new identities.
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