How to Be a Better DM: Dungeon Master Tips for the DM Newbie, the Hobbyist and the Forever DM Diving Deep into Theme, Fate, and Storytelling with Jay Foster from Swole Initiative
What does it really mean to be a strong Dungeon Master? Is it about rules mastery, epic voices, or maybe... sonic attacks and diamond scales?
In this episode of How to Be a Better DM, returning guest Jay Foster from Swole Initiative joins Justin Lewis for a monster of a conversation—literally. First, Jay becomes the first victim of our brand-new segment, “What’s Your Monster?” powered by our friends at WorldSmith. (Spoiler: It’s epic.)
Then we dig deep into the power of theme in D&D campaigns—what it is, how to discover it, and how to use it to elevate your game. Jay breaks down how theme connects your villains and player characters and why letting go of rigid story control actually leads to better storytelling.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to wrangle plotlines, player choices, and big ideas, this episode is your antidote.
🔥 Topics Covered:
- How to find the theme in your campaign (even if you didn’t plan one)
- How to use your villain’s motives to reinforce story
- Why players make better stories than you do
- When to take control as a DM—and when to step back
- The creative advantage of doing less prep
🎲 Plus: Jay shares improv tips, pacing tricks, and how to get players out of a “tavern loop.”
Whether you're a brand-new DM or an old-school storyteller, this episode will sharpen your storytelling tools—and maybe inspire your next legendary monster.
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