Seeing Other People This Mindset Shift Will Change Your (Dating) Life
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Apr 1, 2025 Keren Eldad, an executive coach and author of 'Gilded', joins to discuss breaking free from perfectionism in dating. She emphasizes the dangers of seeking external validation and people-pleasing in relationships. Keren shares insights on embracing authenticity and shifting mindsets to foster meaningful connections. The conversation dives into self-love, resilience, and finding true happiness from within rather than through a partner. Listeners gain valuable tools for recognizing red flags and cultivating fulfilling partnerships.
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Keren's Early Marriage Story
- Keren Eldad shared her experience of marrying quickly due to societal pressure and ending in an abusive marriage.
- She described hitting rock bottom and then transforming her life through coaching and self-help.
Self-Love Trumps Partner Perfection
- Chasing the perfect partner prevents true connection.
- Real alignment comes from self-love, which makes others enough despite their flaws.
Reframe Your Dating Mindset
- Get tired of your own excuses and admit the dating struggle is a problem you want to solve.
- Practice reframing negative thoughts using the pause principle to change your mindset consistently.
