What to do when you stop repressing your anger & it's 'too much' for people? | Weekly Q&A

Today Sarajane answers the question:

" Hi Sarajane! I'm a 1w9, struggling with other people's reactions to and perceptions of my anger. I spent most of my life repressing it, and now I'm trying to allow myself to feel and actually process my anger (which I feel ALL the time), but I don't feel allowed to do that because I keep getting feedback that it's "too much" or "too intense." I feel like other types may experience this with their go-to emotions, too (e.g., 4s constantly being told they're too sad and to get over it). Any advice and practical tips on how to deal? Thanks so much for your amazing podcast!! It's life-changing!"

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