The Dynamic Nature of Grief and Its Role in Personal Development with Ryan Conklin
Feb 6, 2024
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Nature Rooted, Transformational and Leadership Coach Ryan Conklin explores the complexity of grief, the fear surrounding it, and the importance of intentional community building. He discusses the different forms of loss, the role of ceremonies for life transitions, and the concept of 'the land'. Ryan emphasizes the transformative power of grief and the consequences of suppressing it. Tune in to learn how grief becomes a catalyst for personal growth!
Grief should be honored and not suppressed, as it allows space for joy, love, and connection.
Building meaningful communities is essential for personal growth and transformation.
Deep dives
The Importance of Being Changed by Transformations
Transformations in life are not just about what happens to you, but what you do with those experiences. It involves a willingness to be changed by them and to embrace the unknown. Career transformations, for example, require letting go of old identities and being open to new possibilities. It is important to understand that transformation is an ongoing process, not a destination. The willingness to be in the fire of transformation and to be present with the pain and uncertainty is crucial. It is through these transformations that we redefine ourselves and find our true identity.
The Power of Grief and Honoring Loss
Grief is an essential part of our human experience and it is important to honor our losses and allow ourselves to grieve. Grief is not just about what was lost, but also about what was loved. It is a conversation that we have with ourselves, with others, and with the greater-than-human beings around us. Grief should not be suppressed or ignored, as it can congeal and block our ability to feel and experience life fully. By being present with our grief and creating space for it, we also create space for joy, love, and connection.
Activating Community and Connection
Community plays a vital role in our personal growth and transformation. It is important to build and activate meaningful communities around us. Community is not just a physical place, but it exists within participation and connection. By being present with ourselves and actively engaging with others, we can activate our community. This can be done through genuine conversations, collaboration, and shared activities. Community provides support, witness, and the opportunity to be held as we navigate our personal journeys of growth and transformation.
Embracing Discomfort and Growth
The path of growth and transformation is not comfortable, but it is necessary. Growth happens outside of our comfort zones and requires a willingness to be changed. It is through discomfort and facing the unknown that true growth occurs. Stepping into the discomfort of grief, challenges, and transitions allows us to tap into our full potential and live more fully. Transformation requires a shift in mindset and a willingness to embrace change. By letting go of our attachment to the familiar, we make space for new experiences, joy, and personal evolution.
Discover the transformative power of grief as Nature Rooted, Transformational and Leadership Coach, Ryan Conklin, dissects the complexity of grief, and the importance of intentional community building for personal and professional transformation.
From personal experiences to life transitions, Ryan explores diverse forms of loss, the fear surrounding grief and the misconceptions of "getting through" it, and how you can honor and celebrate these thresholds instead.
Tune in and learn the role of grief, the consequences of suppressing it, and how when embraced, it becomes a catalyst for personal growth!
Show Highlights
[01:12] What makes a life transformation
[10:54] Ryan’s experience with fear
[14:47] Why you should honor grief instead of suppressing it
[22:57] Different forms of loss, and ceremonies for life transitions
[27:54] Grief and uncertainty about what's on the other side
[32:09] The concept of "the land", and the role of community
[38:27] The importance of intentional community building
[41:40] On creating ripples of transformation
[45:08] Where to find Ryan Conklin
Links and Resources
🟢 Ryan Conklin’s Instagram → Instagram.com/ConklinChronicles
🟢 Ryan Conklin’s LinkedIn → Linkedin.com/in/Ryan-Conklin-12947640/
🟢 Intuitive Finance with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com