The Toxic War on Masculinity - An interview with Nancy Pearcey
Jul 18, 2023
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Jonathan interviews Nancy Pearcey, author of 'The Toxic War on Masculinity'. They challenge stereotypes, discuss healing from abuse, tap into men's inherent knowledge, explore the origins of toxic masculinity, contrast masculine and feminine virtues, and emphasize the importance of embracing both masculinity and femininity in society.
Sociological research challenges the notion of toxic masculinity by showing that evangelical Christian men are the most loving husbands and fathers with the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence.
There are two competing scripts of masculinity, the 'good man' and the 'real man', and it is crucial to promote the 'good man' characteristics of honor, integrity, sacrifice, and responsibility while challenging the harmful aspects of the 'real man' script.
Christianity offers a practical solution to reconciling the sexes and challenging toxic masculinity, with committed Christian men exhibiting high rates of marital satisfaction, engagement with their children, and the lowest levels of domestic violence.
Deep dives
The Surprising Research on Toxic Masculinity
There is a growing cultural belief that masculinity is toxic, but research challenges this notion. Sociologists have found that evangelical Christian men test out as the most loving husbands and fathers, contradicting the negative stereotypes often associated with Christian men. Christian husbands are shown to be the most loving and engaged with their families and have the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence. This research highlights the importance of presenting a more accurate narrative of masculinity and challenging the negative perceptions that society often holds.
The Two Scripts of Masculinity
There are two competing scripts of masculinity: the 'good man' script and the 'real man' script. The 'good man' embodies traits such as honor, integrity, sacrifice, and responsibility, while the 'real man' script promotes toughness and a lack of emotional vulnerability. Sociological studies have shown that men universally recognize the 'good man' characteristics as exemplary, and it is important to affirm and encourage these traits. By calling men to live up to the ideal of the 'good man' while challenging the harmful aspects of the 'real man' script, a more positive and balanced understanding of masculinity can be fostered.
Christianity as the Solution to Toxic Masculinity
Contrary to popular belief, Christianity offers a practical solution to reconciling the sexes and challenging toxic masculinity. A combination of sociological and psychological research shows that committed Christian men, particularly evangelical men, have the highest rates of marital satisfaction, engagement with their children, and exhibit the least amount of domestic violence. The research demonstrates the effectiveness of biblical principles in shaping masculinity, such as showing honor and respect in relationships. By fostering an understanding of masculinity rooted in Christian values, we can counter the negative narratives surrounding masculinity and encourage the development of healthier, more positive expressions of manhood.
Positive Perception of Ephesians Five Headship
Ordinary Christians express the idea of Ephesians five headship in loving and caring language, emphasizing spiritual leadership and responsibility for the well-being of the family.
Significant Benefits of Practicing Christian Values
Research shows that practicing Christians who actively live out their faith in marriage have better relationships, higher satisfaction, and are more likely to engage in community service and charitable activities.
In this episode, Jonathan interviews Nancy Pearcey, the author of the upcoming book The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes. Her most recently published book is Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality. Her earlier books include The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners:How Now Shall We Live(coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and Total Truth. Her books have been translated into 19 languages. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. A former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."