The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

313: How to Deal with Emotional Disconnection in Marriage

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Nov 18, 2025
Cristie's journey from feeling undesirable to rekindling intimacy is both inspiring and relatable. After a crisis in her marriage, she discovered the power of relinquishing control and embracing respect. Small changes, like expressing gratitude and being pleasable, transformed their relationship dynamic. Cristie emphasizes the importance of learning to apologize and manage moods through self-care. Today, her marriage is filled with laughter and warmth, showcasing how adjusting one's approach can reignite connection. A must-listen for anyone grappling with emotional disconnection!
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How They Met And Initial Attraction

  • Cristie met her husband Rusty at a tire store and was drawn to his decisiveness and provider energy.
  • She contrasted him with college boys and felt his manliness made her respect him early on.
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Escalation Of Attempts To Fix Intimacy

  • About ten years into marriage Cristie wanted more physical intimacy and began complaining and trying to 'fix' him.
  • Her actions escalated from complaints to insisting on doctor visits and therapy without resolution.
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The Hotel Breakaway That Sparked Change

  • After a blow-up Rusty left for a hotel and told Cristie he wanted her to find someone who could make her happy.
  • That confrontation prompted Cristie to discover Laura Doyle's work and reassess her role.
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