Ep 14: Get Better at Being Angry with Sam Parker

 

 

You can find Sam on Substack @goodanger and Instagram @samparkeruk

You can find me on Instagram and TikTok @beahappierparent and full videos of these episodes are available on Youtube @alexindadland

Summary

This conversation delves into the complexities of anger, exploring its multifaceted nature, gender dynamics, and its role in relationships and parenting. The speakers discuss how societal norms shape our understanding of anger, the importance of expressing it in healthy ways, and the need for emotional awareness in both personal and professional contexts. They emphasize the significance of recognizing anger as a valid emotion that can lead to positive change when managed effectively.

Takeaways

Anger is a multifaceted emotion that can be both constructive and destructive.
Gender plays a significant role in how anger is perceived and expressed.
Healthy relationships require the ability to express anger and resolve conflicts.
Modeling healthy conflict resolution for children is crucial in parenting.
Anger in the workplace often goes unaddressed, leading to disengagement.
Somatic awareness can help individuals identify and process their anger.
Anger can serve as a signal for unmet needs and insecurities.
Trial and error is essential in learning how to manage anger effectively.
Understanding the body’s response to anger can enhance emotional intelligence.
Embracing anger as a natural emotion can lead to personal growth and healthier relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Anger: A Gendered Emotion
07:51 The Role of Anger in Parenting and Social Media
13:08 Rethinking Anger: Beyond Aggression and Violence
19:09 Anger as a Tool for Self-Discovery
24:00 Anger in Relationships: Navigating Conflict
30:11 Quiet Quitting: The Impact of Unexpressed Anger
36:11 The Complexity of Anger in Parenting
39:04 Modeling Healthy Conflict Resolution
42:02 Understanding Anger as a Primary Emotion
46:30 Anger: A Servant or a Master?
52:25 The Body's Role in Emotional Awareness
57:29 Integrating Body and Mind in Emotional Health

Titles

The Complexity of Anger: Understanding Its Role in Our Lives
Gender Dynamics of Anger: Who Gets to Express It?

Sound Bites

"Anger is a multifaceted emotion."
"Who gets to feel angry?"
"Anger at work is often avoided."