508: Shaking an Unsuitable Stalking Suitor | Feedback Friday
May 14, 2021
A sister faces the threat of her abusive ex-boyfriend, leading to essential discussions on safety measures, restraining orders, and psychological tactics used by abusers. The podcast also dives into the complexities of working with a partner, offering strategies for communication and boundary-setting. It highlights the importance of addressing workplace harassment with solidarity and legal awareness, while landlords deal with troublesome neighbors and their impact on tenants. Finally, genuine networking is explored, reflecting on the COVID-19 era.
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Stalker Contact
Cut contact with stalkers immediately, blocking them everywhere.
Depriving them of interaction removes their fuel for harassment.
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Documenting Harassment
Document all interactions with the stalker, including attempts to reach out.
Take screenshots, record dates, times, and message content, if legally permissible.
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Enhancing Security
Enhance physical security with cameras around the property.
Alert neighbors about the situation and ask if they can add cameras facing your property.
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Your sister's (now former) boyfriend might be a legitimate psychopath, but he's definitely a stalker who's threatened her for breaking up with him after she discovered his unfaithfulness. How can she best protect herself from his deranged promises to ruin her life? We'll look for the best answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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How can your sister best protect herself from a stalker ex-boyfriend's deranged threats to ruin her life? [Thanks to George Grant and Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]
What are the pros and cons of working with your significant other?
How can your friend protect her job and sanity against harassment from a senior co-worker? [Thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]
Your rental property has neighbors who are a nuisance to your tenants. You're losing money because your tenants don’t want the hassle of the weekend parties, and you're not on premises to document the neighbors' transgressions. What can you do? [Thanks to Brandon Turner for help with this one!]
Even though there seems to finally be light at the end of the tunnel, what's the best way to network during the COVID-19 pandemic?
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