Episode 224: When Teens Wander
Oct 21, 2025
Dr. Ken Wilgus, a psychologist and author, dives into the challenges parents face when teens drift from faith or family values. He explains the crucial differences between estrangement from parents versus God, and how this impacts parenting techniques. Dr. Ken emphasizes the importance of building trust instead of control, encourages meaningful dialogue, and offers hope that wandering can lead to growth. With practical advice on navigating teen rebellion and fostering community, he reassures parents that they're not alone in this journey.
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Two Different Prodigal Problems
- 'Prodigal' often conflates two different realities: estrangement from parents and self-destructive living.
- Distinguishing estrangement from God versus estrangement from you clarifies what help is needed.
Diagnose Before You React
- Clarify whether the issue is faith drift or destructive behavior before reacting.
- Tailor your response: spiritual concern needs prayerful patience; profligate behavior may need safety interventions.
Right But Powerless
- Parents may be right yet powerless; exerting control often pushes adult children away.
- Power dynamics, not truth, commonly drive estrangement in parent–adult child relationships.



