Do you feel guilty setting boundaries? Worry about upsetting others when you say no? If the fear of disappointing people is driving your decisions, even at the expense of your own well-being, this episode is for you. You’ll learn where this fear comes from, why it’s so hard to let go of, and how you can start shifting out of people-pleasing so you can take care of yourself without guilt.

In this episode, you will learn:

The deeper reason you feel responsible for others’ happiness
How to spot people-pleasing in your body and thoughts
Small ways to start setting boundaries, even when it feels scary

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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.

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🎓 Get $10 off my self-paced course Get to the Root of Your Anxiety using the code PODCAST10 at checkout: http://calmlycoping.com/root

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Want more?

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My favorite tools:

🧘🏽‍♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd

✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081

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Say hi on social:

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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead

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