In this lively discussion, Richard Reeves, a Brookings Institution fellow and author, Ryan Holiday, a writer and host, and Ian Rowe, an education advocate, dive into modern fatherhood. They tackle the evolution of masculinity and parenting roles, questioning traditional expectations. Topics like the significance of unconditional love in family dynamics and the complexities of adoption are explored. With personal anecdotes and insights, they highlight the need for empathetic parenting and the changing landscape of fatherhood in today’s society.
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Eli Lake on Fatherhood and Loss
Eli Lake shares a touching anecdote about becoming a father while grieving his own dad's sudden death.
He reflects on the complexities of their relationship, acknowledging both criticism and unconditional love.
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Be a Parent, Not Just a 'Dad'
Ryan Holiday emphasizes that being a parent is an active choice, not just a biological event.
Prioritize family time above other commitments for a more fulfilling life.
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Modern Fatherhood
The role of the modern dad is evolving beyond the traditional breadwinner model.
Dads must now be more directly involved in providing care, time, and love to their children.
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In 'Of Boys and Men,' Richard V. Reeves delves into the complex and urgent crisis of boyhood and manhood. He discusses how profound economic and social changes have led to many boys and men losing ground in education, the workplace, and family life. Reeves presents detailed research on the structural challenges, including lower academic performance, declining labor force participation, and the specific hardships faced by black boys and men. He argues that both conservative and progressive politicians have failed to provide effective solutions and offers fresh, innovative proposals such as delaying boys' entry into school, increasing male teachers, and improving vocational education. The book emphasizes the need for a positive vision of masculinity in a more equal world without compromising gender equality[3][4][5].
Happy Father's Day! For today's episode, a conversation about fatherhood with three dads who have thought a lot about parenthood, masculinity and being a dad in a world stripped of convention. Richard Reeves is a Senior Fellow at the Brookings Institution, and the author of the book Of Boys and Men about why boys and men are falling behind in so many aspects of American life. Ryan Holiday is a writer, bookstore owner, Daily Stoic and Daily Dad podcast host. Ian Rowe is a Senior fellow at American Enterprise Institute where he works on issues surrounding education and upward mobility, family formation, adoption. He’s also Chairman of the board at the Spence-Chapin adoption organization, author of the book, Agency, and cofounder of Vertex Partnership Academies, a new network of character-based International Baccalaureate high schools in the Bronx.
Along with guest host Eli Lake, the four dads talk: fatherhood, marriage and if it matters anymore, what's up with "toxic masculinity," being a role model for boys, adoption, if the rules and traditions of gender are hurting today's dads or if they offer wisdom we need to re-embrace, and much more.
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