Guys We F****d IN JAPAN, MEN PAY FOR A WOMAN’S TIME?
Nov 21, 2025
Yurié Collins, a Japanese stand-up comedian, shares her insights on the unique aspects of Japanese dating culture, including the surreal world of hostess clubs where men pay for companionship. She discusses her experiences as a hafu, navigating perceptions and challenges as a biracial person in Japan. The conversation touches on societal conformity, high school dating rituals, and the boundary lessons from accidental relationships. Yurié's journey into stand-up comedy and the cultural differences she observes between Japan and America makes for a captivating listen.
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Paid Conversation As Nightlife Labor
- Hostess and girls-bar work in Japan pays for conversation and companionship rather than sex.
- The job requires heavy emotional labor: remembering clients, selling drinks, and performing a curated persona.
Complexity Of Hafu Identity
- Being hafu (biracial) in Japan can be both fetishized and othering depending on context.
- White features are often idealized, but biracial people still face exclusion in small-town settings.