

Choice Overload! Forgiveness! Executive Control! & How They Can Impact Relationships
Dec 14, 2021
01:05:13
Sarah speaks with Dr. Tila Pronk, an assistant professor in social psychology at Tilburg University, who specializes in love and relationships. Dr. Pronk guides us through her research on executive functioning (a set of processes that have to do with managing oneself and one's resources in order to achieve a goal), forgiveness, and how to minimize online dating burnout. This episode discusses questions like - Why some people are better able to protect and maintain a relationship than others. What does it take to forgive? And what are some of the potential psychological drawbacks of uninhibited online dating? Resources:The Stroop Test: https://faculty.washington.edu/chudler/java/ready.htmlDr. Tila Pronk's Research: https://www.tilburguniversity.edu/staff/t-pronkInstagram: @tila.pronk; Twitter: @tilapronkThe articles discussed in this episode are below: A rejection mind-set: Choice overload in online dating Pronk, T. & Denissen, J., 2020, In: Social Psychological and Personality Science. 11, 3, p. 388-396Marriage as a training ground: Examining change in self-control and forgiveness over the first 4 years of marriage Pronk, T. M., Buyukcan-Tetik, A., Iliás, M. & Finkenauer, C., 2019, In: Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. 36, 1, p. 109-130What it takes to forgive: When and why executive functioning facilitates forgiveness.Pronk, T. M., Karremans, J. C., Overbeek, G., Vermulst, A. A. & Wigboldus, D. H. J., 2010, In: Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 98, 1, p. 119-131How can you resist? Executive control helps romantically involved individuals to stay faithful.Pronk, T. M., Karremans, J. C. & Wigboldus, D. H. J., 2011, In: Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 100, 5, p. 827-837Sarah KelleherInstagram: @psychandthecitybkTwitter: @psychndthecityWebsite: sarah-kelleher.com