Exam Study Expert: ace your exams with the science of learning 144. On Supportive Parenting & Handling Pressure, with Dr Tamara Soles
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Mar 16, 2024 In this engaging conversation, Dr. Tamara Soles, a child psychologist and founder of the Secure Child Centre, shares her expertise on supporting children's academic journeys. She discusses the importance of fostering strong family connections and the impact of academic pressure on relationships. Dr. Soles offers insights into motivating children beyond traditional rewards, understanding neurodiversity in education, and managing exam stress with healthy habits. Her practical advice aims to nurture well-rounded, resilient kids ready to face challenges.
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Showing, Not Just Telling, Values
- Make values explicit through actions like scheduling family time or engaging in shared activities.
- Show up and prioritize connection, just as you would prioritize sleep or other essential needs.
Rewards and Intrinsic Motivation
- Rewards can shift motivation from intrinsic to extrinsic, especially for already motivated students.
- Focus on rewarding the learning process and effort, not just outcomes like grades.
Effective Reward Strategies
- Avoid punishments as they erode parent-child relationships.
- Use lighter rewards to maximize intrinsic motivation.