Abdullah Oduro

7 Beliefs That Are Quietly Destroying Muslim Men

Aug 21, 2025
Explore the detrimental beliefs quietly affecting Muslim men, from the dangers of blaming others to the importance of personal accountability. Discover the struggle of balancing modern feminism with traditional family roles in Islamic marriage. Learn about the impact of complacency and the necessity of humility for self-improvement. Dive into the seven damaging beliefs that undermine strength, encouraging mentorship and supportive relationships over isolation. It's a thought-provoking discussion that challenges prevailing narratives and promotes personal growth.
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INSIGHT

Own Your Part First

  • Blaming others prevents self-accountability and breeds arrogance and narcissism.
  • Abdullah Oduro warns this mirrors Shaytan's refusal to admit fault and weakens honor and humility.
INSIGHT

Don't Generalize About Western Sisters

  • Saying "there are no good women in the West" is an overgeneralization that fosters resentment.
  • Abdullah Oduro argues many good sisters exist and men may just be looking in the wrong places or with the wrong mindset.
ADVICE

Use Hardness To Build Strength

  • Do the hard, uncomfortable practices like fasting when you cannot marry to build self-discipline and protect chastity.
  • Use that voluntary deprivation to strategize and strengthen yourself spiritually and practically.
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