Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

How Love Styles Can Help You Grow Closer as a Couple (Part 2 of 2)

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May 14, 2025
Explore how childhood interactions shape adult relationships through unique love styles. Discover the value of recognizing personal attachment styles for deeper connections. Learn how to navigate conflict with effective communication, emphasizing the process of 'rupture and repair.' Get insights on modeling healthy conflict resolution for children and the power of 'do-overs' in relationships. Finally, delve into addressing emotional struggles to nurture stronger partnerships, with practical resources for couples in need.
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INSIGHT

Childhood Love Styles Shape Adulthood

  • Early childhood love styles deeply impact our adult relational patterns and how we handle stress.
  • Recognizing these patterns helps adults improve stress management in relationships and develop healthier attachments.
ADVICE

Use Comfort Circle for Conflict

  • Use the Comfort Circle technique where one partner listens and the other speaks to build understanding.
  • Practice calm, attentive listening instead of reacting to get to the root of conflict emotions.
ANECDOTE

Modeling Apology and Repair at Home

  • Mylon and Kay model conflict repair by asking for a "do-over" and even singing a song to reset after a bad start.
  • Their children see healthy apology and repair, teaching valuable conflict resolution skills by example.
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