The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

316: How to Stop Fighting and Name Calling

Dec 9, 2025
Renee shares her tumultuous journey through decades of name-calling in her marriage that pushed her to the brink. After hitting rock bottom, she discovered transformative tools that shifted her relationship dynamic. By practicing self-accountability and focusing on kindness, she turned the tide, leading to a gentle and supportive partner. With newfound communication skills, Renee restored intimacy and modeled healthy relationships for her children. Her powerful story inspires others to seek change and embrace empowerment.
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ANECDOTE

The Fight That Changed Everything

  • Renee described a violent peak fight where she grabbed her husband by the shirt and injured her finger in front of their daughter.
  • That moment triggered deep accountability and led her to tell her daughter she was at fault and would change.
INSIGHT

Victimhood Blocks Real Power

  • Renee realized her 'victim trophy' kept her powerless and repeated the same dance with her husband.
  • Letting go of blaming others unlocked the only real control she had: her own responses.
ADVICE

Double Down On Practical Training

  • Renee read The Empowered Wife and immediately committed to learning the skills and coach certification.
  • Do invest in practical training and community when you're cracked open and ready to change.
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