Conversations With Coleman From Darkness to Light with Scott Barry Kaufman [S2 Ep.15]
May 21, 2021
Scott Barry Kaufman, a renowned cognitive scientist and author of "Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization," shares his remarkable journey from being a learning-disabled child to a groundbreaking figure in psychology. He delves into the intricacies of victimhood, trauma, and the dangers of spiritual narcissism. The conversation also covers the therapeutic implications of psychedelics, the balance of free will, and the surprising happiness linked to human connection, especially during crises. It's a thought-provoking exploration of resilience and personal growth.
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Hacker Childhood Boosted Confidence
- Scott Barry Kaufman was a world-famous hacker at age 12 running a bulletin board system for pirated games.
- This illegal activity gave him a rare sense of self-efficacy during struggles in school and learning disability.
Vulnerable Narcissism and Victimhood
- Vulnerable narcissism feels entitled due to past suffering, unlike grandiose narcissism tied to superiority.
- It often leads to mental health issues and victimhood mindset linked to need for validation.
Culture Rewards Victim Identity
- Cultural narratives often reward victimhood, with no clear path offered to move out of it.
- Lack of support early on can keep people stuck in victim identity longer than necessary.
