Intelligence Squared The Joys and Struggles of Disabled Parenting
May 31, 2023
Eliza Hull, a writer and musician, discusses her experience as a disabled mother and the insights shared in her anthology, 'We've Got This.' She highlights the emotional complexities of parenting with a disability, including the impact of societal attitudes and ableism. Hull shares stories from herself and over 30 other disabled parents, showcasing their triumphs and challenges. The conversation emphasizes the importance of open dialogue about disabilities, promoting positivity and acceptance within communities while advocating for better understanding of disabled parenting.
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Eliza's Parenthood Journey
- Eliza Hull, disabled since age five, always envisioned parenthood, facing internalized ableism due to societal barriers.
- Her neurologist discouraged her, citing potential parenting difficulties, but her partner's support and online research fueled her advocacy.
Common Themes in Disabled Parenting
- Despite diverse impairments, disabled parents share common struggles, especially medical discrimination and societal judgment about passing on disabilities.
- Hull emphasizes the importance of education in the medical field to combat ableism.
Adapting to Limitations
- Hull's son expressed sadness at her inability to run with him due to her disability.
- She reframes this, highlighting the diverse contributions within a family.
