Consider Before Consuming How Porn Fueled Violence and Control in My Relationship
Sep 25, 2024
In this enlightening conversation, Shelby shares her harrowing experiences growing up with early exposure to pornography. She discusses how it distorted her understanding of sex and consent, leading to hypersexuality in her teenage years. Shelby reflects on the emotional and physical toll of a toxic relationship influenced by her partner's porn habits. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing coercion, healing from betrayal, and fostering open communication to combat misconceptions about intimacy. Her journey is both a cautionary tale and a source of hope for others.
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Early Exposure
- At age 10-12, Shelby was exposed to pornography on TV while sleeping near her parents.
- She felt ashamed and embarrassed, not understanding why it was on.
Seeking Porn
- Shelby started seeking out pornography around 13, driven by curiosity about sex.
- She lacked resources for sex education, and her peers were increasingly sexualizing interactions.
Porn as Sex Ed
- Many young people turn to pornography for sex education due to a lack of open conversations with adults.
- Shelby's experience is common, highlighting the need for better resources.