Lives of the Unconscious. A Podcast on Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy Episode 31. A Lover's Bind: The Psychoanalysis of Romantic Relationships
Oct 17, 2022
Explore the tangled dynamics of romantic relationships through a psychoanalytical lens. The discussion delves into themes of jealousy, control, and unspoken agreements that shape dependency. Discover how personal history influences partner selection and emotional connections. Infidelity is examined, revealing the tumultuous bonds it creates, alongside the struggle for autonomy. This insightful journey uncovers the complex interplay of love and the unconscious, transforming our understanding of relationships and emotional fulfillment.
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Unconscious Match Shapes Relationships
- Romantic relationships form through unconscious communications and matchings between individuals.
- Partners often see each other as fulfilling unconscious wishes and defenses, influencing relationship dynamics.
Growth Hinges on Role Flexibility
- A young woman develops confidence through her relationship with a dominant man initially perceived as perfect.
- Their ability to accept evolving roles determines if the relationship fosters growth or remains stagnant.
Collusion Locks Fixed Roles
- Rigid roles in relationships cause frustration and block personality development.
- Collusion describes unconscious, fixed complementary roles that avoid deeper conflicts but limit growth.
