Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong People — The Neuroscience of Love Patterns (7 Brain Traps)

Most people think their struggles in love come down to bad luck or the wrong partner. Neuroscience tells a different story.

In this episode,I break down the 7 hidden brain traps that shape attraction, repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and leave love feeling harder than it should. You’ll learn how past experiences and emotional wiring influence who you’re drawn to, why dating apps often reinforce old patterns, and how to begin rewiring your love life in as little as 48 hours using practical, science-backed strategies.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode offers clarity—and a new way forward.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How your inherited attachment template shapes attraction and relationship choices

• Why suppressed emotional needs keep repeating the same relational outcomes

• How unprocessed trauma loops influence chemistry and connection

• The 7 brain traps that quietly sabotage love—and how to interrupt each one

• Simple micro-strategies to start rewiring your love patterns quickly and safely

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Inside the book, you’ll get:

• The 63-Day Neurocycle® Plan for rewiring relationship patterns

• Step-by-step strategies for emotional regulation and mind-directed change

• Practical tools to prevent relapse into old attachment dynamics

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DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice.