Things Unseen with Sinclair B. Ferguson

A Husband's Integrity and a Wife's Respect

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Oct 16, 2025
Attraction fades, but character endures. Sinclair Ferguson explores the vital link between a husband’s integrity and a wife’s respect. He highlights that respect stems from trust in a partner’s character rather than superficial qualities. Couples are encouraged to reflect on what initially inspired their mutual admiration. Ferguson suggests a vow for husbands to commit to being worthy of their wives’ respect, creating a foundation of security and faith for their children. A strong marriage reflects Christ’s love and teachings.
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INSIGHT

Respect Is Rooted In Character

  • Sinclair B. Ferguson emphasizes that a wife's respect for her husband is a central key to married life.
  • Respect is rooted in trust and character, not mere attraction.
INSIGHT

Respect Means Trust And Safety

  • Ferguson defines respect as trust in a husband's character, faithfulness, and keeping his word.
  • He compares this to Ruth's sense of Boaz as a man who made her feel safe and at home.
ANECDOTE

Observing Couples At Conferences

  • Ferguson recounts observing couples at conferences and guessing why they married based on the husband's qualities.
  • He noticed that superficial traits create attraction but character creates lasting respect.
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