Sensitive. Ep. 39: Why Trauma-Informed Spaces Can Create More Shame with Katja Markelova
In this conversation with Katja Markelova, we explore the surprising ways that many “trauma-informed” spaces can unintentionally create more shame, fear, and disempowerment. From the myth of “safe spaces,” to the culture of hypervigilance and endless rules, we unpack how these dynamics can leave people feeling fragile and infantilized rather than free and empowered.
Together, we explore:
- Why hypervigilance in trauma-informed spaces often increases shame and fear
- What to create instead of a so-called “safe space”
- How to honor real struggles with agency without disempowering people
- Signs that a community is shame-centric (and how to spot them)
- What it actually means to hold a non-dogmatic space
- Katja’s one guiding rule for her containers — and why it matters
- How all of this connects to cancel culture, difference, and staying in relationship
This is a rich, provocative conversation for anyone craving community and leadership that fosters true capacity, agency, and connection — not more fear.
Katja Markelova is a seasoned practitioner, educator and creator of the Tales of Bodyverse platform and the professional training Imaginal Body where she teaches human condition through resonance and field dynamics. Trained extensively in somatic trauma resolution, quantum fields, and folklore as somatic maps, Katja developed the "Felt Imaginal Architectural Construction" method - a process that naturally dissolves even most sticky and heavy patterns while building capacity for Effortless, Effective, and Efficient Life Artistry, opening pathways to equanimity and previously unavailable alternatives.
Resources & Links Mentioned:
- Connect with Katja on Telegram → https://t.me/+QtO2QK7U1AMwNGZk
- Connect with Katja on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/talesofbodyverse/
- Learn more about my upcoming workshop, The Visibility Lab → https://www.kimkimballcoaching.com/visibility-lab-for-sensitive-entrepreneurs
A Gentle Invitation:
If this conversation resonates, I’d love to hear what you’re rethinking about the spaces you’re part of or facilitating-send Katja or I a DM.
And if you’re ready to experiment with expression in a supportive space, come join us inside The Visibility Lab. It’s where you’ll get to play with your voice, share your ideas, and build your visibility rhythm without pressure or performance.