The Mating Grounds Podcast

Helping Joe, Episode 25

Jul 20, 2015
This week, hosts tackle Joe's frustrations with dating apps, dissecting his Tinder mishaps and confusion around polyamory. They explore the true meaning of 'chemistry' in relationships and how it impacts anxiety. The discussion shifts to profile strategies, emphasizing storytelling over traditional photos. Sleep habits come under scrutiny, with tips to avoid pre-bed app usage, implying nighttime scrolling ruins rest. Finally, they challenge Joe to define his 'perfect day' as a way to gain direction in life and relationships.
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INSIGHT

Chemistry Is Certainty, Not Magic

  • "Chemistry" often feels like the removal of uncertainty about mutual interest.
  • Clear signals of interest let you be confident and stop guessing, which reduces inner turmoil.
INSIGHT

Matches Reflect Fit, Not Self-Worth

  • Tinder matches evaluate fit against current preferences, not your objective worth.
  • Low replies often mean you're not the right fit for their present goals, not that you're unworthy.
ADVICE

Use Storytelling In Dating Profiles

  • Tell a vivid personal story in your OkCupid profile to attract matches who share your goals.
  • Add interesting pictures and story hooks that give people things to comment on and connect with.
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