Consider This from NPR BONUS: 'We Already Belong'
Apr 11, 2021
Korean-American novelist R.O. Kwon shares her insights on the struggles of discussing anti-Asian violence with her immigrant mother, a theme she explores in her Vanity Fair essay. She delves into the emotional complexities of being a translator in familial relationships and the challenges faced by the Asian American community during the pandemic. The conversation addresses the delicate nature of conversations about race, safety, and how to break long-standing silences on these critical issues within families.
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Protective Daughter
- R.O. Kwon discusses her role as a translator and protector for her immigrant parents.
- She explains how this role created internal conflict when she felt unable to warn them about rising anti-Asian violence.
Unspoken Warning
- R.O. Kwon recalls her first urge to warn her parents about anti-Asian hate when the former president used the term "Chinese virus."
- However, she hesitated, prioritizing their peace of mind over raising their fears during an already stressful time.
Growing Up Asian American
- Both R.O. Kwon and Justine Yan grew up in predominantly Asian communities, unaware of being a minority.
- Kwon reflects on how "forgetting" or suppressing trauma has helped her parents survive and thrive.