Big Think Why emotional intelligence starts before memory does
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Aug 27, 2025 Psychologist Ethan Kross reveals that emotional regulation begins at birth, emphasizing the importance of skin-to-skin contact. He introduces the 'Batman Effect,' a playful approach where kids adopt superhero personas to tackle challenges. Early teaching of emotional strategies not only helps children manage their feelings but can also lead to improved grades and overall well-being. The conversation dives into the foundational role of emotional intelligence in shaping resilient, successful individuals.
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Actively Shape Kids' Emotional Beliefs
- As caretakers, explicitly shape kids' attention, perspective-taking, and social understanding about emotions.
- Encourage belief that emotions can be managed so children adopt and practice regulation tools.
Regulation Starts At Birth
- Emotional regulation begins immediately after birth through caregiver proximity and skin-to-skin contact.
- This early co-regulation teaches infants that closeness to a caretaker helps manage emotions.
Teach Emotion Skills Early
- Start teaching kids emotion-management tools early and build on them as their brains develop.
- Introduce age-appropriate scientific strategies so children can use healthy regulation when stressed.