Stoic Coffee Break
181 - Askers and Guessers
Apr 5, 2021
Exploring the concepts of Ask Culture and Guess Culture and how they influence social dynamics. Discussing the benefits of being an asker in communication and the importance of fostering a culture of asking.
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- Guest Culture assumes unwritten social rules, while Ask Culture encourages open communication and asking for what is needed.
- Becoming an asker can improve relationships, promote trust, reduce stress, and lead to clearer communication.
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Understanding Guest Culture and Ask Culture
In this episode, the host explores the concepts of Guest Culture and Ask Culture. Guest Culture is characterized by unwritten social rules that are assumed to be known by everyone. In such cultures, asking direct questions is considered conflict-averse and assumptions are made that others should know how to act. On the other hand, Ask Culture encourages open communication and encourages asking for what is desired or needed. Ask Culture is found in diverse communities or when consent and clear communication are valued. The host discusses the traits of both cultures and the stress and discomfort that can arise from being a guesser. They emphasize that becoming an asker can greatly improve communication and reduce misunderstandings.
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