Become New with John Ortberg Why Jesus Said to Give in Secret (Matthew 6:3)
Jan 15, 2026
Discover the revolutionary concept of giving in secret as taught by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount. Engage with ideas that challenge societal norms of reciprocity and self-promotion. Learn how practicing hidden generosity can retrain hearts and foster true selflessness. Explore insights from historical figures like Dietrich Bonhoeffer, highlighting that authentic goodness flourishes away from the spotlight. Embrace the joy and freedom that comes from unannounced acts of kindness, transforming generosity into a natural part of life.
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Giving Frees You From Approval-Seeking
- Jesus teaches that giving should free us from seeking others' approval and status in a reciprocity-based world.
- This flips the ancient patron-client system by rooting generosity in gratitude to God, not in getting something back.
Christian Giving Breaks Reciprocity Chains
- Ancient gift economies required repayment and public honor, binding people in reciprocal obligation.
- Christianity reframes gifts as originating from God so believers give without expecting repayment.
Practice Quiet Generosity Daily
- Practice giving quietly so you don't become dependent on praise or public recognition.
- Keep your generosity secret to retrain your heart toward freedom and gratitude.