E538 Dr. Gabor Maté

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Oct 15, 2024

Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned physician and author focused on trauma and addiction, shares insights from his book, "The Myth of Normal." He discusses the profound impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships and the epidemic of loneliness in our culture. Maté highlights the healing potential of plant medicine like ayahuasca and emphasizes the importance of emotional safety for recovery. The conversation also touches on the need for communal support and authenticity in navigating personal growth and trauma.

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INSIGHT

A Sick Culture

Dr. Gabor Maté argues that high medication rates, rising mental health diagnoses, and overdose deaths indicate a sick culture.
He questions why so many people need to escape reality, linking it to societal issues.

INSIGHT

Trauma Defined

Trauma is defined as an unhealed emotional wound from childhood that causes lasting negative impacts.
It leads to inflammation, genetic changes, physiological problems, emotional suppression, and disconnection.

ANECDOTE

Theo Von's Story

Theo Von shares how his traumatic childhood, feeling unseen by his busy mother, led him to become a comedian.
He reflects on whether his career choice was a genuine desire or a way to gain attention.

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Sir Michael Howard

Determined

A Science of Life without Free Will

Robert Sapolsky

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts

Close Encounters with Addiction

Gabor Maté

In this book, Dr. Gabor Maté presents a comprehensive and compassionate look at addiction. He argues that addiction is not a moral failure or a genetic disease but rather a result of human development gone awry, often due to childhood trauma. The book includes first-person accounts, case studies, and scientific research to illustrate how addictive behaviors are attempts to self-soothe deep-seated fears and discomforts.

The Myth of Normal

Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture

Gabor Maté

Daniel Maté

In this book, Gabor Maté and his son Daniel Maté challenge the prevailing understanding of 'normal' health, arguing that Western medicine often neglects the impact of trauma, stress, and modern-day living on our bodies and minds. They connect the dots between individual health issues and the broader societal problems, offering a compassionate guide for health and healing. The book is based on over four decades of clinical experience and is supported by extensive scientific research, patient stories, and personal disclosures.

The Brothers Karamazov

Larissa Volokhonsky

Fyodor Dostoevsky

Richard Pevear

Set in 19th-century Russia, 'The Brothers Karamazov' is a novel that delves into the lives of the Karamazov family, focusing on the three brothers—Dmitri, Ivan, and Alyosha—and their complex relationships with their father, Fyodor Pavlovich Karamazov. The novel is a murder mystery, a courtroom drama, and an exploration of erotic rivalry, faith, doubt, and reason. It examines the human psyche, moral dilemmas, and the search for meaning in a world fraught with suffering and uncertainty. The story revolves around the murder of Fyodor Pavlovich and the subsequent trial of Dmitri, accused of the crime, while exploring deeper themes of Russian life, social and spiritual striving, and the clash between faith and reason[2][5][4].

The Evolved Nest

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The continuum concept

Jean Liedloff

In 'The Continuum Concept', Jean Liedloff presents a theory based on her observations of the Yequana and Sanema indigenous tribes in South America. She argues that human beings have an innate set of expectations, which she calls the 'continuum', that are essential for optimal physical, mental, and emotional development. The book emphasizes the importance of immediate maternal contact, constant physical carrying, co-sleeping, breastfeeding on cue, and immediate response to infants' needs. Liedloff suggests that when these evolutionary expectations are not met, it can lead to various mental and social disorders. The book advocates for a 'back to basics' approach to parenting, aligning with evolutionary psychology and attachment theory.

Scattered Minds

The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder

Gabor Maté

In this book, Dr. Gabor Maté argues that Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD/ADHD) is not a genetic 'illness' but a response to environmental stress. He explains that the brain circuits responsible for emotional self-regulation and attention control fail to develop in infancy due to life experiences. The book provides insights for parents to understand their ADD children and for adults with ADD to gain insights into their emotions and behaviors. It presents a program to promote neurological development in both children and adults, emphasizing the role of social and emotional environments in both the cause and cure of the condition.

Catch-22

Buck Henry

Set in the closing months of World War II, 'Catch-22' is a satirical novel that follows the story of Captain John Yossarian, a bombardier stationed on the island of Pianosa off the coast of Italy. The novel explores the absurdity and inhumanity of warfare through Yossarian's attempts to escape his flying duties, thwarted by the bureaucratic rule known as 'Catch-22'. This rule creates a paradox where a man is considered insane if he willingly continues to fly dangerous missions, but if he requests to be relieved of duty, he is proven sane and thus ineligible for relief. The novel is known for its nonchronological structure, circular reasoning, and its critique of military bureaucracy and the illogical nature of war.

The Iliad

Homer

The Iliad is an epic poem attributed to Homer, set during the Trojan War. It begins in the ninth year of the war, where a quarrel between King Agamemnon and the warrior Achilles sets off a chain of events. The poem explores themes of heroism, honor, and fate as it describes the battles and interactions between Greek warriors like Achilles, Diomedes, and Odysseus, and Trojan warriors like Hector and Paris. The story is interspersed with divine interventions from Greek gods and goddesses, influencing the outcome of the war. The poem culminates with Achilles' reconciliation with Agamemnon and his subsequent rage against the Trojans, leading to the death of Hector and the eventual funeral rites for Patroclus and Hector[1][3][5].

The world according to Garp

John Irving

The novel tells the story of T.S. Garp, whose mother, Jenny Fields, is a strong-willed nurse who conceives him in an unconventional manner. Garp grows up to be a writer, wrestler, and devoted parent, navigating a world filled with 'lunacy and sorrow'. The story delves into themes of feminism, sexual identity, and the struggles of the characters against intolerance and violence. It features a complex Dickensian plot that spans Garp's entire life, including his relationships with his mother, his wife Helen, and his friend Roberta Muldoon, a transsexual ex-football player[3][4][5].

Demon Copperhead

Barbara Kingsolver

Demon Copperhead is a powerful and emotionally engaging novel that tells the story of Damon Fields, a boy born to a teenage single mother in a trailer home in the Appalachian Mountains of Virginia. The novel, inspired by Charles Dickens' 'David Copperfield', follows Demon's journey through the challenges of foster care, child labor, derelict schools, athletic success, addiction, and disastrous loves. Kingsolver vividly portrays the opioid epidemic's impact on rural communities and explores themes of love, survival, and the transformative power of storytelling. The narrative is delivered through Demon's unsparing and authentic voice, which brings to life the harsh realities and the resilience of the people in Appalachia[1][3][5].

David Copperfield

Paul Lorain

Charles Dickens

A classic novel by Charles Dickens, following the life of David Copperfield from childhood to adulthood.

The Poisonwood Bible

Dean Robertson

Barbara Kingsolver

The novel follows the Price family, led by the fervent Baptist minister Nathan Price, as they move from suburban Georgia to a remote village in the Belgian Congo in 1959. The story is narrated by Nathan's wife, Orleanna, and their four daughters: Rachel, Leah, Adah, and Ruth May. As they navigate the challenges of their new environment, the family faces cultural dislocation, personal struggles, and the dramatic political changes in the Congo during its fight for independence. The novel delves into themes of moral risk, personal responsibility, and the complexities of colonialism, highlighting the different perspectives and transformations of each family member over three decades.

The top five regrets of the dying

Bronnie Ware

In this book, Bronnie Ware shares her experiences from working in palliative care, where she identified the five most common regrets of the dying. These regrets include: 'I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me,' 'I wish I hadn’t worked so hard,' 'I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings,' 'I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends,' and 'I wish that I had let myself be happier.' The book provides a heartfelt and inspiring account of how these regrets can be addressed while there is still time, promoting a life of greater compassion, honesty, and happiness.