一直觉得友谊是被成年人低估的部分。我们总会谈论爱情、婚姻、家庭，但很少谈论友谊。我们一直说渴望爱情里的亲密关系，但友谊何尝不是另一种形式和缘分的“亲密关系”。
因为那个朋友，我们学会了爱人，因为这个朋友，我们懂会了尊重。友谊以其独立性、多元性、开放性的天然特质，无限地丰富着我们有限的人生。朋友们活出的多样性，其实就是另一个世界的你呀。

事业会令你忧心，爱情会令你心碎，但友谊就像温暖而稳定的港湾，拥抱着经历风雨后回归的我们。
今天这集节目献给所有的朋友们，身边的朋友们，远方的朋友们，线上的听友们，
I’m a better person because of you, my friend.

03:50 描述一下你认为的美好友谊
09:08亲密无间的认同感和顶峰相见的独立性

14:27 如何做一个有很多朋友的人？
19:23 反直觉的职场友谊
24:49 如何判断一个人是不是能做朋友？
27:03 朋友之间需要门当户对吗？

29:29 友谊是需要维系的吗？
35:39 朋友的席位是越多越好还是限定发售？
36:42 朋友结婚生子后，友谊还能走下去吗？
42:00 如何处理与好朋友的吵架？
47:53 如果你一夜之间失去了所有的朋友
54:43 友谊麻辣问答：异性友谊，酒肉朋友，嫉妒与背叛

62:15 友谊是如何帮我长出血肉
64:11 单身的我并不是“单身”啊
66:22 keep your girlfriends

Girlfriends bring casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you need help
Girlfriends keep your children and keep your secrets
Girlfriends give advice when ask for it, sometimes you take it sometimes you don’t
Girlfriends don’t always tell you you’re right but they are usually honest
Girlfriends still love you even they don’t agree with your choices
Girlfriends laugh with you and don’t need canned jokes to start the laughter
Girlfriends pull you out of your jams
Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby in whichever order that comes
Girlfriends are there for you in an instant when the hard times come
Girlfriends listen when you lose a job or friend
Girlfriends listen when your children break your heart
Girlfriends listen when parents minds or bodies fail
Girlfriends cry with you when someone you love dies
Sisters, families and friends, bless my life when we began this adventure we had no idea of incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead nor did we know how much we would need each other
So... Keep your girlfriends.

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