19. The Facts Are In: Two Parents Are Better Than One
Sep 21, 2023
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US marriage rates have declined while single-parent households have increased. Melissa Kearney discusses the problem and the need for liberals to recognize it. The podcast also explores alternative family structures and the benefits of communal living and shared child-rearing responsibilities.
The number of babies born to unmarried parents in the US has significantly increased over the decades, with 40% of babies now born to unmarried parents overall and 70% for black babies, highlighting the decline of two-parent households.
Children from single-parent households often face greater economic insecurity, fewer resources, and less parental support, leading to challenges in behavior, academics, and lower incomes as adults, particularly for boys who are more likely to be involved in the criminal justice system.
Economic changes and educational disparities are major factors contributing to the rise in single-parent households, with college-educated individuals more likely to have two-parent households while non-college-educated individuals face greater economic challenges and struggle to achieve the same family structure.
Deep dives
The rise of single-parent households in the US
In Melissa Kearney's book, 'The Two Parent Privilege,' she explores the startling fact that the number of babies born to unmarried parents in the US has significantly increased over the past few decades. While only 5% of babies were born to unmarried parents in 1960, that number has now risen to 40% overall and 70% for black babies. Kearney emphasizes that this topic is often met with discomfort in academic and policy circles, but it is crucial to address the decline of two-parent households, as they provide greater economic security and resources for children. The book suggests that economic changes and educational attainment are major drivers of the decline in two-parent households.
The consequences of single-parent households
Kearney's book highlights the negative effects of single-parent households on children's well-being and future prospects. Children from single-parent households often face greater economic insecurity, fewer resources, and less parental time and emotional support. As a result, they are more likely to experience behavioral challenges, struggle academically, and earn lower incomes as adults. Furthermore, boys from single-parent households, in particular, are more likely to be involved in the criminal justice system.
Exploring the causes of the decline in two-parent households
Kearney examines various potential causes of the rise in single-parent households and finds that it is not primarily attributable to divorce, teenage pregnancy, or cohabitation. Instead, she identifies economic changes and educational disparities as major factors. College-educated individuals are more likely to get married and raise their children in two-parent households, while non-college-educated individuals face greater economic challenges and are less able to achieve the same family structure.
The benefits of communal parenting
The podcast segment explores Twin Oaks, an intentional community in Virginia, as an example of an alternative family structure. Twin Oaks has adopted a nuclear-ish family model where multiple adults share parenting responsibilities. The community provides economic support, and the time spent raising children counts towards residents' work quota. This approach offers more hands-on support to parents, reduces stress, and creates a strong sense of community for both children and adults.
Addressing the challenges and potential solutions
The book and podcast episode underscore the need for addressing the decline in two-parent households and providing support to single-parent families. The authors advocate for policies that promote economic security, such as bolstering community colleges and expanding the earned income tax credit. They also emphasize the importance of reducing the societal stigma around discussing family structure and exploring innovative approaches to improve the well-being of children and families.
In her new book The Two-Parent Privilege, the economist Melissa Kearney says it’s time for liberals to face the facts: U.S. marriage rates have plummeted but the babies keep coming, and the U.S. now leads the world in single-parent households. Plus: our friends at Atlas Obscura explore just how many parents a kid can have.
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