Therapy and Theology S9 E2 | Six Red Flags To Watch For in Any Relationship
Jul 17, 2025
Jim Cress, a licensed professional counselor, brings his expertise to help listeners navigate relationship dynamics, while Dr. Joel Muddamalle, a theological scholar, offers biblical insights. They discuss six key red flags in relationships, like incongruity between words and actions that erodes trust, and the dangers of self-centeredness. The duo shares strategies for addressing immaturity and insincerity, emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Ultimately, they guide listeners on using these red flags wisely to foster healthier connections.
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Words Versus Actions Matter
- Incongruity is when someone's words paint one picture but their actions show another pattern over time.
- Lysa TerKeurst warns patterns, not one-offs, erode trust when there's no repentance or change.
Acknowledge And Boundary When Misalignment Appears
- When you notice incongruity, honestly acknowledge what you see and feel without shaming the other person.
- Then set clear boundaries and respond responsibly rather than staying in the delusion.
Pleasant Words Can Be Hollow
- Insincerity shows up as pleasant words that don't match consistent behavior and drains your energy.
- Lysa TerKeurst notes insincerity ranges from harmless white lies to manipulative patterns that exhaust others.